Meeting Chris for drinks...

Tonight, Syd and i went out for drinks to meet a guy who contacted us.  We get a lot of guys wanting to meet us, and i'm sure most of that is due to Syd of course. We do have a lot to offer and we have become even more discerning in or choices these days.

The guy who contacted us is a 28 year old black guy who is a grad student from one of the local colleges. He was very intrigued by our profile on a site. From the moment we began chatting, he seemed enthralled with us, especially Syd of course.

Searching for gold can be tedious...and rewarding.

i sat in the car waiting for them to come out and after about 20 minutes, they came through the exit doors together. We then drove him to his car.  The drive home was delightful recanting the episodes we just experienced.

So, after chatting for about two weeks, we finally set up a time to meet for drinks and tonight was that night.

Mind you, during those two weeks, every chat i was on the lookout for some red flag.  You see, so many times these will pop out as a warning signal and i have learned to trust my instincts regarding potential suitors. 

i believe that a lot of guys might be able to carry on one conversation and fake it, but over the long haul, they just can't help exposing their Achilles heel. Once exposed, they don't get another chance with us.  And because so many guys try to contact us, i have learned to be very discerning and Syd is so appreciative. She knows how difficult a task it is to sift through "candidates" to find the gem.

So, tonight was long anticipated by us because we hadn't met with a "candidate" in a while.  Chris was young, but demonstrated a maturity that impressed me.  You know someone is serious about you when they don't want or need myriad pictures.

Syd dressed for the occasion and i so wish i could show her to you. You would see an incredibly sexy blonde vixen with piercing blue eyes.  Her body is so ravishing. She is tall at 5'8" but when she wears 5" heels like she did tonight - 5" heeled boots - she is 1" taller than me.  It is so fucking hot to see her walk into a room and watch all the heads turn.  And the beautiful thing is she doesn't even know she does it. With her boots and skin tight pants and her blouse which so seductively pulls your eyes to her voluptuous cleavage, she makes me, her husband of 20 years hard when I see her.

Well, at least kind of hard, as I really can't get hard confined in the Queen's Keep she loves to lock me in. More about that some other time.

So, we walked into the hotel lobby where there is a great bar we enjoy. It's an exclusive hotel with a lobby that just oozes charm and class. We found a nice little nook where we could sit, but also be served drinks from the wait staff. Traffic was crazy so I thought Chris might be late.

And if you have ever done this, you're never sure the guy is going to show up. It is beyond me why some people engage only to disengage after receiving pics. I mean with ubiquitous porn on the web, who needs personal pics to get off?  Really? I'm not sure i'll ever understand the motivations behind such time wasters.

Anyway, part of me was hoping Chris was not in this camp. i emailed him where we were sitting and it was about 20 minutes past the time we were supposed to meet.

But again, traffic was as snarled as i have seen it in a long time here. i decided to walk around and the lobby and into the bar. i recognized him right away. He was sitting at the bar very well dressed and already drinking what looked like a whiskey drink.

He smiled an easy smile when i inquired, "Chris?"

He stood up and shook my hand, firm and looked me in the eye.  So far so good, i thought to myself.

He looked like his pictures, which is no small statement. He is very good looking and towers at 6'4" with the body of a soccer player. His nude pics he sent us would be the envy of most women, in all respects.

We walked over to where Syd and i had been sitting with our drinks waiting for him. She stood up when we got closer and shook his hand in a very businesslike manner. Clearly she was sizing him up.

We all sat down and the waitress came by to see if we needed anything. We all had drinks so we didn't order any more, but she clearly looked at the three of us with subtle bemusement. The thought that she knew what was going on was intoxicating to me.

The three of us began to chat about our backgrounds, and histories, and own personal stories. He was very engaging and was genuinely interested in getting to know us better. Again, he was very mature for being 28 year old.

As an aside, how hot is it that my newly turned 46 year old wife is the object of desire for a handsomely virile young man.

He told us about some of his previous relationships and how his most favorite have been cuckold relationship is which lasted on the long-ish side.  Long for him meant 6-8 months.  And given his perspective and youth, we understood.

He clearly was dominant, not because he told us that, but because that was how he held himself. He was comfortable in his own skin.

i can't tell you how many guys will contact me and say they "can be dominant" or they are "sometimes dominant." That is definitely not what we are looking for.  We want a dominant who is dominant because he is dominant.

We talked for about 2 hours over drinks. We knew beforehand that he had a previous engagement with a couple he was meeting at a hotel. We knew our time was limited but time was also flying as the conversation weaved so effortlessly from personal to sex to whatever came up. It was a fun.

i excused myself to go to the bathroom. Don't get me wrong, i did have to go to the bathroom, but i also wanted to give them some alone time perhaps to say some things they might not otherwise say with me there, particularly Chris.

When i returned, Chris told me that he wanted Syd to take off her panties and hand them to him but she wasn't wearing panties! We only knew him 2 hours, and he was giving tasks.  Sometimes tasks can be exhausting, he seemed to know how to make them fun.

He thought for a while and then asked Syd to go upstairs in the lobby and sit on the couch near the bathrooms and that he would be up in a couple minutes.

Believe me, if i could get erect, i would have been. i was on hyper alert in a very good way. After she left us, he leaned closer to me and confided that he intended to go up and direct her to go with him into the men's room. He said there wasn't anyone in there and wanted to kiss her. He asked how i felt about it. i told him i thought it was not and exciting. He said "good" and proceeded to get Syd.

There i was sitting alone where just minutes ago my wife was sitting with me and our new black friend. i was so turned on. It seems everyone who walked by looked in my direction as if they knew exactly what was going on. Of course I know they didn't really, but I do think at least our waitress knew. The combination of arousal and humiliation was so raw for me at that point.

i looked at my watch and realized they were gone about 20 minutes. It seemed like an eternity. Finally, they descended the marble staircase together in a not-too-subtle display that they were together. They walked over to me and both smiled so broadly.

He told Syd to tell me what they did. She told me he directed her into the men's room and they went into a large handicap stall and began kissing. He then went down on her and then unbuttoned his pants and guided her head to his cock. She later told me he was very big and had a lot of fun with him in those few minutes.

Guys were coming in and out of the bathroom while they were in there. They had fun knowing they were bucking convention by being in there. He then suggested as there was a guy in the bathroom washing his hands that they walk out so he would see them exit.  They did. They talked about how exhilarating it was.

Remember, this was my wife who a year ago never watched porn and didn't know the word cuckold...with a 28 year old!

Soon after relaying the events to me, we realized Chris had to go and so we all stood and i shook his hand and he warmly hugged Syd and kissed her on the cheek saying he couldn't wait till we see one another again. He asked if we could share cell phone numbers and we did.

So, that was it. He left and Syd and I talked about how much we liked him and enjoyed his company. We decided we would go to one of our favorite restaurants in the city, a place where we can get amazing food and a quiet atmosphere so we could talk.

On our way to the restaurant, I received a text from Chris, "Great meeting with you guys tonight. i hope we can plan something in the future so you can be included in the fun we had in the bathroom."

It felt good to receive that from the guy who was vying to be our dominant.

And, no sooner did we get seated and i received another text from Chris saying the couple he was supposed to meet with backed out and he wondered if he could meet us for some more talk.

We asked him if he wanted to join us for dinner. The quickest response ever came back saying he definitely did and that he could be there in a couple minutes.

We told our waitress that we were expecting a friend in a few minutes.

He came into the room of the restaurant in which we were seated and it was like an old friend just joined us. He took off his coat and sat right next to Syd. i was seated across from Syd. We talked about how comfortable we all felt and good our evening was with him earlier. We all agreed that the couple backing out with him was a good thing...for us, all of us.

We all looked at the menu and finally ordered. As we sat there and talked, Chris casually put his hand on Syd's leg. Right there for everyone to see, he had his hand on my wife's leg. And he would look me in the eye and smile and I'd smile in return.  We both were loving it. And, i know Syd was loving it.

i also noticed that when our waitress would come by, he would keep his hand there. i am quite sure she noticed and the thought they she knew was something hard to describe, but i'll tell you it was thrilling.

After a little while, i excused myself to the bathroom. Again, i thought i'd give them some alone time. On my way back from the bathroom, i noticed i could see our table from an interior window and it was likely they couldn't see me. i stopped and watched them and thought to myself how erotic this all was.

Then, amazingly, i saw Syd look around the restaurant and then she leaned over to Chris and they kissed. Again, right there in the open and if anyone was looking, they would have seen everything. i was looking, even though they didn't know i was looking, and was so turned on. Probably precisely because they didn't know I was looking made it even more of a turn on.

i didn't say anything to them upon my return and would only later tell Syd i saw them kiss. She loved the fact that i saw it.

We continued through dinner and by this time we were the only ones left in the restaurant except for a few waiters. When it came time to leave, Syd asked me to go get the car and i knew that was code for giving her and Chris some alone time. i left the restaurant for the car and saw them head off to a very dark section of the restaurant.

i am sure there will be more posts to come about Chris.

Stay tuned...