Sunday, February 22, 2015

Meeting Dwade - an extremely dominant gentleman

We began chatting with Dwade about two weeks ago. As i mentioned in my last post, he contacted me through SLS. Since he was from Chicago, i was very skeptical.  How could this work? Wouldn't the distance just doom the whole episode?

In our chats, he seemed perfectly suited for us. He was mature, educated, good looking, deftly conversational, and, last but not least, very dominant. He wasn't some guy who wanted to be dominant, he lived his dominance.

We spent about 2 weeks chatting, and it was refreshing not to have a guy want so many pictures. i have found the more pictures they want, the less real they probably are. He knew we were real, he could sense it.

i knew he was real, i could sense it. i didn't need confirmation. His actions proved he was in it for the long haul and i liked that.

I know she needs this...and am willing to search for her. 
Within about 3 conversations, he insisted i refer to him as "Sir." He saw it as a sign of respect and my submissiveness. i respected that.

As you know by now, Syd wants me to vet prospective dominants and so many have been time wasters in her experience. So far, he seemed like the real thing and i was keeping Syd abreast of all our discussions. She was intrigued by our texts.

i had to go on a trip to St. Louis for business and was routed through Chicago. While at the airport, i texted him that i was in his city for a layover and it was too bad we couldn't meet. We laughed it off and continued our back and forth texting.

Once i got to St. Louis, he told me he was at O'Hare and was himself on his way for a business trip. i asked him where he was headed and he said, "i have to go to St. Louis for a conference."

i told him, "You won't believe this, but i am in St. Louis!"

We talked about the chances of this coincidence and that we should meet one another. i am sure he wanted as much to see if i was real as i wanted to see his bona fides.

Our conversations in text and in voice to this point were all very smooth. There wasn't a red flag strewn into the field of our many conversations and that is very very rare. i'd say someone can fool me maybe for one chat, maybe even for two, but sooner or later, the real person comes through sooner or later. i am thankful this is true.

We decided we would meet that night if we could both get away from our respective clients.

It is weird how much anxiety builds up in these types of situations. There are a lot of emotions built around hopes and security. Hoping that everything works out and the guy is a good person and not a prick. And, feeling uneasy as you know somewhere in the back of your mind, if this is the right guy, everything could change in your life.

This is me.
Meanwhile, during all this, Syd has had me caged since about a month ago. The only time i have been let out has been about once a week to take a shower with it off. i can’t tell you how good it feels to have the water running on to my little dick. It's as if my nerve ending become super sensitive. It almost feels like i could orgasm from the experience.

So, Dwade and i talked throughout the day and it appeared we were both able to make our meeting. He asked me if we could meet in the lobby of his hotel. Given the implied hierarchy, i consented.

On my drive there, it seemed my little dick was straining its confines, so compact, so tightly caged.

i let him know i was there and waited for him in the lobby. i sat on a couch which looked very comfortable and also faced the elevators. Soon, he was exiting the elevators and i knew it was him immediately.

He was very good looking and walked with a confidence befitting a dominant in this regard.

He walked over to me and i got up to greet him and we shook hands. We sat down and chatted about all kinds of subjects from where we lived, personal stuff, and obviously sexual things. He seemed very interested in us and our story. Our story is wholly unique.

So, as i have written before, in these types of meetings, i am looking for signs of warmth or signs pointing to red flags. There were no red flags with this guy. Okay, one, he was shorter than me and that was something Syd has always said was an important asset for her. Of course, i knew he was almost three times bigger than me in other metrics, so i thought it was a hurdle she may be willing to overlook :)

He asked a lot of details about our sex life and i was being honest with him about everything. i sensed he was trustworthy and knew that it was best to be open and honest so that he would know what he was getting and so would we. In fact, i let myself be a lot more vulnerable with him than usual.  Maybe it was because he was from another city, maybe i felt comfortable with him. But, i told him things i'd never tell some people on a first meeting.

It was extremely late at this point and we both were pleased at what we had learned from the other.

He is going to be in a nearby city to us in about 2 weeks. We plan on the three of us meeting then.

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