Sunday, October 27, 2013

CuckoldMarriage.info - site of my beginning

Here is a little background on how i came to wanting to experience a female led marriage, chastity, and cuckoldry.  One of my earliest introductions to this lifestyle was through a website named www.cuckoldmarriage.info


i have been following it for years.  The creator, his name is Luvr on the site, is a very insightful and caring guy who is a Dominant in the truest sense of the word.  He describes the website as, "CuckoldMarriage.Info was first launched as fuckmyslutbride.com in 1996 and was the first site online dedicated to the cuckold marriage lifestyle and associated aspects of BDSM."

Without this site, i would not be in a female led marriage, in chastity or certainly a cuckold today - no question.  Luvr and His site have led me in this journey and challenged me to go where i never thought i could on my own.  i was right, i know i couldn't have done this all on my own - but, i had so much behind me in His support and the support of His website.

This site first served as a fantasy repository for me.  The articles and guides are clearly meant to lead a couple into the cuckold lifestyle and not meant as some porn site.  This is serious business to Luvr and He takes his craft very seriously.  If you read just one article, you will see how must time and energy He pours into His work.

He has a terrific step-by-step introduction into the cuckolding lifestyle that is by far the best on the net.  He begins, "Cuckolding takes what is perceived as the largest threat to a marriage and turns it into something that binds a couple closer together."

This is something that always intrigued me about Luvr's site.  It always put out there that our marriage would be better for the cuckolding experience.  At times i believed that, at times i didn't.  i know that what i read on Luvr's site both excited me and scared the shit out of me.  i would tell Him so.  And, He would always be there to reassure me and guide me through the feelings i was experiencing.

To this day, there are sections of His site that challenge me and i think to myself  "There is no way i could do that."  Well, in this lifestyle and with people like Luvr at your back, i have learned to never say never.

Now, i totally understand what He means when He says our marriage will be stronger.  i would also add, and i think He would agree, that while cuckoldry will strengthen the healthy marriage, if your marriage is in a weakened state, cuckoldry will probably push it over the cliff.  This lifestyle is not for the faint of heart as i am experiencing. 

So, whether you are new to the term cuckoldry or have been jacking off to it for years, if you truly want this lifestyle to become a reality in your marriage, this site is required reading for both you and spouse or your significant other.

There are 2 sites i put into this category of required reading.  More about the second site in my next post.

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    1. sorry for the deleted comment, messed things up from my moblie, I've place my commend below. Maarten

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  2. I am a fan of cuckoldmarriage.info too!
    I wonder which is the other site that you like. I did not see it being mentioned in your next set of posts. Would you mind telling me? :) Thanks.

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  3. Christian,
    Reading your blog almost made me miss my train to work! It is a captivating love story!

    Thanks to cm info for posting the link to it. From the picture I could see in the post about you on cm info, your wife looks very beautiful. And from what I've read here on your blog she picking up up things quicker than I've ever seen before. You both seem very fortunate for having such a deep understanding for each other and the will to explore you changing roles in the relationship.

    I'm very exited to read your future developments.

    Maarten (the Netherlands)



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  4. I really like the tone of luvr's writing on cuckoldmarriage.info and on his tumblr site, the restraint and matter of factness. The way he says things gets me completely into a state of acceptance.

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